So I am sitting in a Dars (lesson) and observe what I deem to be various flaws in the delivery of the speaker. After the Dars, walking home with a friend who happened to sit in as well, I point out to him my observations. Upon doing so, he turns to me and hits me with a peach of an advice (paraphrased): "If you were sincere, you would have told him, not me."
True, very true. Why make suggestions for improvement to one it does not concern? Bizarre! Anyway, lesson learnt and, God-willing, I will inform the one it concerns and not repeat the mistake again.
2 comments:
Sounds like you have a good friend, masha Allah. Jazak Allahu khayran for sharing that.
Someone to set me straight, to tell me what I need to hear and not necessarily what I want to hear, is a great blessing indeed.
Jazaak Allahu Khairan for your comment. Feel free to critique anything I say or do any time. I am most in need of it.
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