The difference between good and bad relationships
is not whether there is conflict
- all relationships have conflict;
it's how we get to know one another -
but how we deal with it.
Vital and nourishing,
seeing it for what it is,
it's time to worry instead
when not sharing views is the more attractive course.
(Consolidation of the chapter entitled 'Fight Club' in the 'Tough Love' section of 'The Mind Gym: Relationships'. Good book!)